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living in the "now"

LIVING IN THE NOW. rejoice in "today"


Today is the true meaning of my life! When I find myself wondering why I am here, I need to keep in mind that this existence is one of loving today, and living in the moment. Living in the moment means I should not be overly concerned nor troubled by what I hope for, or worry about tomorrow. This day, “now”, today, these are my precious moments! 5 years time will change a lot, some good, some bad, but the “now”, are the moments to rejoice and really appreciate my loved ones and my friends, for truly this time I have with them are the most precious moments that I can never have again. Smell the flower, call a parent, say I love you. Because the “now”, this moment, will not last forever nor will the people in it. But in my flood of memories I will never lose these thoughts of all the precious moments, that are no longer here. I want to enjoy today, with the grace that God has given me, and appreciate its moments because the moment, is what I always live and feel “now”. The yesterdays are but my memories of times that are long gone, that will never to be repeated, but only joyously reflected on in such a treasured way. As for this day, I will absorb in it, make the most of it because it is all mine.

 www.newjourneyrecovery.com   john carcerano
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antisocial personality disorder explained

anti social personality

by john carcerano


A person with an Antisocial Personality diagnosis will exhibit several if not all of the following traits:

Symptoms:
Common characteristics of people with antisocial personality disorder include:
Persistent lying or stealing
Constant difficulties with the law
Often violating the rights of others.
Drug or alcohol addiction
Violent and aggressive behavior
Agitated depressed feelings
Cannot tolerate being bored,always restless and unsettled feelings
Has no regard for the safety of himself or others
Always getting in trouble as a child
They show no remorse for their hurtful actions
Charmer
Impulsiveness
They have a feeling of entitlement
Rarely makes or keep friends
Shows no feelings of guilt

People with Antisocial personality do not like or respect authority figures.



MY EXPERIENCES WITH AN ANTISOCIAL PATIENT AND ASSOCIATE

I knew a guy with antisocial personality and he was always very difficult to deal with. I also knew him when he was 9 months dedicated to sobriety and he was a very different and easier person to deal with. His name was Tom. Tom was always fast talking and conning his way through life. He was also an alcoholic and cocaine addict when he could afford it, preferably crack cocaine. But as he entered his late 40's he was broke and so he drifted away from cocaine. He still drank cheap straight vodka very heavily. About a half a quart to a quart a day. He was an inconsistent worker and he could never make ends meet. Because he was an unstable worker he would also have to rely on handouts to help him get by every month. Up until the age of 49 he had been arrested at least 10 times that I knew about. Everything from 4 dui's to car theft and drug possession. He always had run ins with the law and was in and out of the legal system all of his life. Often he would con his way to receive probation for his many arrests. He did serve 4 or 5 sentences of a year or so each. He was an extremely difficult person to be around. He told me that he had started drinking and drugging at the age of 14 and that his father was a heavy drinker. I saw photos of his father and he looks just like him, so it's apparent that he received most of his inheritance from his father. His father died when Tom was still in his teens. What you mostly find in people who have an antisocial personality disorder is that they usually come from a semi dysfunctional background and their is almost always one parent that was addicted to drugs or alcohol. Now Toms father was an alcoholic but his mother was not. His father was a very intelligent and successful lawyer. Toms mother was a heavy smoker though, and she died of emphysema. And according to Tom, he was sneaking his mother cigarettes in the hospital on her death bed. So there was a very strong addictive tendency in his family. Toms brother had succeeded at beating alcoholism and was put on SSRI medication for a psychological disorder.Tom fit the pattern well for those with antisocial personality. They start using drugs and alcohol in their early teens and begin getting into trouble with the law early in life. Tom would also tell me that he often could not sit still and relax and that his mind would race.


Treatment:
A successful outcome for psychotherapy alone is very limited for this disorder. Intense psychoanalytic therapy has also not proven to be very successful.The therapeutic relationship, therefore, can be one of the first ones. Antisocial diagnosed individuals have been found to be lacking in a life where there has not been much emotional rewards. A good and trusting rapport with the client is the only way that there can be a successful treatment outcome.


Medication

Antisocial patients respond best to Ssri such as Zoloft or Paxil. These antidepressants often help to reduce aggressiveness, anxiety and depression. These patients often only receive treatment when they are forced to through the criminal justice system. They not only need help from a substance abuse counselor and a psychiatrist but also close support from family or friends if it is available. They have often made a lot of enemies with their agressivly conning and unlawful behavior. Breaking ground with treatment often takes some time.



these blogs are written for you in conjunction with my upcoming book  "A NEW JOURNEY"  RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION   by john carcerano   www.newjourneyrecovery.com
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HOW CRACK COCAINE FEELS

what it feels like to smoke crack cocaine


"THE FIRST TIME YOU START SMOKING CRACK YOU CAN'T STOP" COMMONLY HEARD ON THE STREET


by john carcerano   -  addiction expert

The first time I smoked crack cocaine I had no idea what I was in for. You put it in a pipe with a copper screen and you lite it with a lighter. You have to keep the lighter lit while you burn all the crack as you suck the smoke deep into your lungs. The amount of crack you put onto the pipe is the full amount you choose to smoke. After you hold in the smoke, about4 or five seconds later you get a euphoric rush where your head is floating and you feel like it is going to pop. For about the next 60 seconds you are in a different world. You can't immediately talk because you have nothing you really want to say and you just enjoy the massive euphoric rush. A few minutes later you are immediately craving your next "hit". Your body is massively speeding and you are a constantly paranoid . You are always gritting your teeth and you just nervously scan about everything that is in your room. You are always on guard because for some reason, you are always paranoid thinking that the cops are about to bust your door down and arrest you. You are always looking Ont the floor for crumbs of crack that you may have dropped. It is the weirdest thing. It's a constant paranoia state. You could have gone a whole day without eating and be hungry before you first start smoking, and after your first blast of crack you no longer have any kind of an appetite. And until you finally stop smoking crack, you will never have an appetite again.


Smoking crack is a big frenzy of always worrying where your next high is gonna come from. It's no different than heroin except you don't have the violent withdrawal.





meet Tonia, a recovered crack addict.



Tonia is 40 years old and has been in recovery from crack cocaine addiction for 3 years now. God bless her, she really has come a long way. It has not been an easy road for her. Tonia had smoked crack daily for almost 15 years. Her recovery was not an easy one but she so far has made it. What pushed her into recovery was that she got pregnant while high and did not believe in aborting the child. Her newly born son Tommy was born with cocaine in his system. The state was going to take custody of him unless Tonia agreed to enter a detox center and a long term recovery program. Now if Tonia would have never had Tommy, she would still be out on the street smoking crack. When you are trying to help a loved one quit a crack addiction, you will never have any idea what, if anything will get them to retreat and quit their addiction. I personally worked closely with Tonia to try to get her to quit her addiction to crack, and nothing really seemed to get through to her. Her strong belief in not aborting a living child was what convinced her to recover. She smoked crack while she was pregnant but could only cut down and not quit. Tonia first went 9 months in recovery before she slipped one day while traveling through her old neighborhood on the way to the state welfare office. That slip only lasted about 12 hours before she knew that she head to get back to rehab and to her 9 month old little boy. Tonia went on to have two more slips before she finally appears on the right road to a stable and hopefully more secure recovery. What caused Tonia to slip were several factors. It is almost a given that an addict will slip while they are still in recovery. Until their mind is fully adapted to a new way of thinking, they will always be more susceptible to a slip. You see, in Tonia's heart she truly wanted recovery, she just didn't know how to get that recovery by herself. So that's why the counselors and people around her who were helping her were so vital to save her life. The first year that Tonia was in rehab her attitude was very crummy. She was forced to go to meetings and get on medication for a psychological disorder. Her boyfriend was still using drugs and alcohol and that was a big draw on Tonia's recovery. She felt upset because her boy friend was able to still use drugs and alcohol but she no longer could. The first year in her recovery I really thought she was not going last. She had bean breaking all the rules to be in recovery and it just seemed like there was no hope. Then Tonia started living in a very caring recovery home. It was at this recovery home that I noticed things started to change in Tonia's attitude for the better. She resented being in the first detox recovery center. I think that Tonia was just treated dismissivly their by an uncaring staff. Other than her counselor, the people around her were coming and going. She could not form a bond with anyone and she felt alone. She was just drifting about. The only thing that kept her in their was her strong desire to keep her newly born child, she loved him immensely. But when Tonia got into the recovery with a new uncrowded environment, she began to build bonds with others and her needs were finally beginning to be addressed. It was in this recovery home I noticed that Tonia began enjoying her group meetings. She even started having long fights with her boyfriend. She would refuse to talk to him when he was high or drunk. She tried to get him to go to meetings with her, but he would not. It was at this new recovery home that Tonia, being lonely without her boyfriend, and sick of his drunkenness, found a new boyfriend. He was in recovery for 13 years and they would work their programs together. In the next two years Tonia had a couple of more slips, but she always learned the reasons for the slips and would correct the action that caused the slips in the first place. Her last slip was the longest. It took her 3 weeks before she went back into recovery, but she did make it back. What caused that slip was because she went into a new recovery home and they did not bother to have her follow up on her psychiatric medication. They also pressured her to start a full time job when in fact she was absolutely not ready for that. When an addict has not been a stable participant in society for over 15 years like Tonia hadn't, then it will take 4 or 5 years before they are ready to begin integrating back into society on their own. *


this blog is written by me, john carcerano in conjunction with my upcoming book  "A NEW JOURNEY"  RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION   www.newjourneyrecovery.com
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LSD

Friday, January 4, 2008

LSD
LSD, is a wildly hallucinogenic drug with the pharmaceutical name lysergic acid diethylamide. LSD is non addictive. It was very popular in the 1960's and was made famous by a California college professor named Dr. Timothy Leary. He became entrenched with the rock and roll drug culture and hung out with all the famous rock groups like the Beatles, The rolling stones and the moody Blues just to name a few. Incidentally, I was too young to have seen Timothy Leary in the 1960's, but I did see him on stage in Chicago in 1987 and he was quite a character, though a highly intelligent man. He was fired from his job as a teacher because he conducted experiments with his students by having them take LSD and write about it.








Effects of LSD


When consumed, LSD causes hallucinations that warp the senses of time and space. The user sees walls breath and trees appear to be on fire. Square rooms will turn round and laughter can occur in bursts for no reason at all. The high will ware off in 4-6 hours. The come down usually happens all of a sudden. It is really a wildly mind bending experience. Believe me I know because I have tried LSD about 40 times. LSD is non addictive. It is only a drug of abuse. When you have taken the drug for 4 or 5 days in a row you are unable to take the drug again and "get off" until you wait about a week for the drug to clear from your body. There is a similar drug to LSD called mescaline. It is very common and has the same effects as LSD. It is very hard to tell the difference between the two drugs. Although I have noticed that mescaline seems to make you speed more than true LSD.





The most common street names for LSD is: window pane, acid, white blotter, dots, pane, superman, blotter.


LSD is often sold on tiny pieces of paper and called blotter, or it is applied to sugar cubes, gelatin squares, and tablets.


LSD is most often taken by mouth. Although the famous rock star Jimi Hendricks would put LSD in his bandanna and tie the bandanna to his head. And when he would perform, he would sweat and the LSD would be released from his bandanna and enter into his body through the pores in his skin. LSD has a slightly bitter and metallic taste. LSD is colorless and odorless.

Government statistics on LSD about who uses the drug

Who uses LSD?
Individuals of all ages use LSD. Data reported in the National Household Survey on Drug Abuse indicate that an estimated 20.2 million U.S. residents aged 12 and older used LSD at least once in their lifetime. The survey also revealed that many teenagers and young adults use LSD--742,000 individuals aged 12 to 17 and 4.5 million individuals aged 18 to 25 used the drug at least once.
LSD use among high school students is a particular concern. More than 8 percent of high school seniors in the United States used the drug at least once in their lifetime, and nearly 4 percent used the drug in the past year, according to the University of Michigan's Monitoring the Future Survey. government statistics.




More government statistics.


What are the risks?
The effects associated with LSD use are unpredictable and depend upon the amount taken, the surroundings in which the drug is used, and the user's personality, mood, and expectations. Some LSD users experience a feeling of despair, while others report terrifying fears--of losing control, going insane, or dying. Some users have suffered fatal accidents while under the influence of LSD.
LSD users often have flashbacks, during which certain aspects of their LSD experience recur even though they have stopped taking the drug. In addition, LSD users may develop long-lasting psychoses, such as schizophrenia or severe depression.
LSD is not considered an addictive drug--that is, it does not produce compulsive drug-seeking behavior as cocaine, heroin, and methamphetamine do. However, LSD users may develop tolerance to the drug, meaning that they must consume progressively larger doses of the drug in order to continue to experience the hallucinogenic effects that they seek. more government statistics

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Britney spears needs a trusting person

Thursday, January 24, 2008

YOU'LL BE ALRIGHT BRITNEY SPEARS



A lot of people are cheering 4 u Britney!

I am sure you feel alone with no one close to you to trust, but you will find your way. Please pull in your rebellion as much as you can. get a close friend whom you can trust to have some quiet time and some company with. You need to relax from the pressure and the press. You will always get your picture taken and find publicity, by hiding out a while you will create even more of a demand for yourself. A week or two away will do you good. The stress is a main trigger to any psychological pressures or issues you are going through. Your a good kid Britney. You will gain admiration by getting through this like a young lady. I'm heavily studied in addiction and treating psychological disorders. I used to drink a fifth of booze a day for over 14 years. I don't want any money or recognition, I would be happy to help guide you.



You are a powerful force. You can get back on track over a short period of time and share love with your little children. They want you, and need you and you will have them for wonderful little walks and visits to the zoo and pizza at night. Please, I know you can do it. It begins with some steps. The short term time you need to get back on top will go by and you will soon understand. I know it's hard when your going through it, I've been there. Your a beautiful young lady and you will hold your head up and love your life, because you have a lot to love and live for.....I promise you will understand and excel...God bless you Britney.



john carcerano 312-305-1524 Author of the soon to be released book "a new journey" RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION http://www.newjourneyrecovery.com/
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OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER

disorder and addiction

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER














Obsessive Compulsive Disorder ; My Explanation and a Study of My Symptoms











And a host of other facts about symptoms, comorbidity with drugs or alcohol, and what you can do to successfully cope and control this Anxiety Disorder

by john carcerano









Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) has many similar symptoms. These symptoms often wax and wane over the lifetime of the sufferer. There is no cure for this debilitating disorder, but it can be managed to a high degree all depending on the severity of the symptoms and the steps taken by the sufferer to modify behavior, thoughts and stress. Most people with OCD are able to hide their illness from others. They suffer in silence. They rarely ever tell anyone that they have this disorder. Because to explain their symptoms to anyone would make them sound neurotic and crazy.The person with OCD experiences a sort of short circuiting of their thought processes. Especially in the area of the brain where thoughts of danger and the avoidance of calamities are generated. This area of the brain is called the basal ganglia.The OCD sufferer becomes plagued with a constant mental bombardment of extreme obsessions and compulsions. These obsessions and compulsions never go away. The obsessions the sufferer experience are of always feeling that a disaster is about to occur even under normally peaceful circumstances. Their mind is constantly bombarded with unwanted thoughts and images.







I too am a sufferer of OCD. The best way I could describe it to you is that it feels as if I have two brains. My regular thinking and functioning full brain, and also a brain that shoves unwanted thoughts into my mind at a rapid fire pace. I am unable to stop this “other brain of mine” from this non-stop bombardment of obsessive thoughts, worries and often times violent, crude and repulsive thinking. I have learned to control the severity and pace of these rapid fire thoughts. There is a war going on in my head at all times. “My other brain” keeps on telling me that certain things are one way, when my full rational brain knows that they are really another way. But there are always these strong compulsions to reduce the anxiety brought on by the danger signals from “my other brain”. The problem is that if I just ignore these obsessions, then there is a build up of anxiety until I recognize and acknowledge them in a certain way, by responding to them with a compulsive movement or mental ritual. If you suffer from OCD then you will understand what I have just described to you all too well.

KNOWN CAUSES OF OCD




OCD most likely is triggered by genetic and secondary medical causes. By secondary medical causes i mean as a result of a medical condition that directly involves the brain. A large portion of OCD sufferers report either a serious head injury, brain seizure or major brain operation directly prior to the onset of their first symptoms. Between the ages of 2-7, I was hospitalized 4 or 5 times for epileptic brain seizures brought on by high fevers. My last seizure at age 7 is what I am sure triggered my OCD. A few days after I was released from the hospital after my last seizure, I immediately began to experience the compulsion to perform rituals in response to strong obsessional thoughts that would not subside. I first remember getting yelled at by my step mother because i got up in the middle of the night to check the clock a total of 22 times. She thought I was playing games. My brother began to make fun of me for my bizarre behavior and shortly after that, I began to learn how to hide my OCD symptoms from others so that I would no longer be teased for my strange behaviors and movements. By the age of 8 , I had developed a fear of germs. I would never drink out of anyone Else's glass and I would always use plastic knifes and forks as often as I could. At aged 9, while watching the news with my brother, there was a report about some diseased cattle. I remember my brother joking and playfully taunting me about the gross diseased meat from dead cows. The next day I chose to give up meat for the rest of my life. I only briefly ate meat in my teens because I did not like too many vegetables and meat was my only way to stay alive and healthy. But I often drowned it in ketchup or swallowed it fast as if I was taking a pill. The reason I had to force myself to eat meat in my teen years was because I was hospitalized at aged 11 for malnutrition. When I had turned 22, that's when I knew that I could stay healthy without ever eating meat again. I have not eaten any meat products now for 22 years. I have also gave up eating milk products 12 years ago. The reason I gave up milk was because I found out milk and cheese are made from bacteria cultures. I also carefully read the ingredients of all the can food that I buy to make sure it contains no meat or milk products. I am what you can call borderline anorexic at times. I go through periods where my weight will go down to 116-120 pounds and I'm 5 feet 9 inches tall. I do eat very healthy vegetarian foods now, and during those rare periods when my weight will drop drastically, I make sure that I drink fruit and vegetable juices, and I also take a variety of vitamin supplements. I also used to take on a ton of complicated projects, and get so overwhelmed that I would not succeed in any of them. I've since learned how to resist taking on too much, and now I only take on a few complicated projects and seem to be doing a lot better at them. And least I forget, from the age of 15 to 29 I was heavy drinker. I drank nearly a fifth a day of hard alcohol. So due to anxiety and other pressures, I was a prime candidate for alcoholism. Sounds complicated, huh. I really feel fine now. It's great when you can be honest with yourself and understand it all.












OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES ("my other brain")







My thoughts on my OCD were always a feeling as if I had two brains, and I often wondered about this description of mine until I read the story of a four year old girl who had been hospitalized with a severe brain injury. She had undergone a long brain operation and went home about a week after her initial injury. A couple of days after this little girl came home she immediately noticed that she was constantly obsessed by these thoughts of numbers in her head. These thoughts had so persisted that she went up to her mother and said "mommy mommy, i always have all of these numbers in my head. would you please tell my other brain to stop putting these numbers in my head).Now it is well known about the honesty at which children describe situations, and I was just shocked when I saw that her description of her OCD was exactly as the way I thought it felt. Out of the mouths of babes, a true honest description of OCD.














OCD ALSO CAUSED BY STREP INFECTION










A strep infection has been proven to trigger an auto immune response that directly attacks an area of the brain called the basal ganglia. The basal ganglia is the section of the brain that malfunctions and seems to be short circuited in those with OCD. The link from strep throat to OCD was first discovered around 1995 by a Dr. Swedo. Dr. Swedo had observed, and interviewed fifty children with a sudden onset of OCD or tic disorders who had recently (within the past several months) been diagnosed with a group A beta-hemolytic streptococcal (GABHS) infection. Swedo found that the children had classic patterns of OCD and tic symptoms. She tested the presence of antistreptococcal antibodies in their blood and found that symptom exacerbations were twice as likely to occur with the presence of antistreptococcal antibodies.





The triggers and causes for OCD seem to be isolated to 3 or 4 main causes. Again they are most often caused by physical brain damage from injury, epileptic seizures, inherited abnormalities and also an autoimmune response triggered from a strep infection which damages the basal ganglia portion of the brain.




This will be a study in what exactly OCD is, and what is best for the sufferer to do to manage and cut down on the severity of this disorder. I have written this in the best and least scientific terms that I could, so as you can better understand in laymen terms, what you need to do to get control of your OCD symptoms. There seems to be good answers as to what causes the onset of OCD. The problem is that even if you are able to trace the cause of your OCD illness, there is no way to reverse the fact that you already have the disorder. OCD is not what you can really call a preventive disorder. In about 1/3 of all OCD sufferers there are associated disorders. These associated disorders are mostly tics and uncontrollable movements that are often known as Tourettes Syndrome. Anxiety is a constant presence to those who have OCD. Some people may experience depression also. Intensity of thought is another trait of OCD. A trait that I too suffer from at all times where my thinking is stuck in a very serious and analytical mode.











DSM IV CRITERIA FOR OCD DIAGNOSIS




A. Either obsessions or compulsions:
Obsessions as defined by (1), (2), (3), and (4):
(1) recurrent and persistent thoughts, impulses, or images that are experienced at some time during the disturbance, as intrusive and inappropriate and that cause marked anxiety or distress
(2) the thoughts, impulses, or images are not simply excessive worries about real-life problems
(3) the person attempts to ignore or suppress such thoughts, impulses, or images, or to neutralize them with some other thought or action
(4) the person recognizes that the obsessional thoughts, impulses, or images are a product of his or her own mind (not imposed from without as in thought insertion)
Compulsions as defined by (1) and (2):
(1) repetitive behaviors (e.g., hand washing, ordering, checking) or mental acts (e.g., praying, counting, repeating words silently) that the person feels driven to perform in response to an obsession, or according to rules that must be applied rigidly
(2) the behaviors or mental acts are aimed at preventing or reducing distress or preventing some dreaded event or situation; however, these behaviors or mental acts either are not connected in a realistic way with what they are designed to neutralize or prevent or are clearly excessive
B. At some point during the course of the disorder, the person has recognized that the obsessions or compulsions are excessive or unreasonable. Note: This does not apply to children.
C. The obsessions or compulsions cause marked distress, are time consuming (take more than 1 hour a day), or significantly interfere with the person’s normal routine, occupational (or academic) functioning, or usual social activities or relationships.
D. I another Axis I disorder is present, the content of the obsessions or compulsions is not restricted to it (e.g., preoccupation with food in the presence of an Eating Disorder; hair pulling in the presence of Trichotillomania; concern with appearance in the presence of Body Dysmorphic Disorder; preoccupation with drugs in the presence of a Substance Use Disorder; preoccupation with having a serious illness in the presence of Hypochondriasis; preoccupation with sexual urges or fantasies in the presence of a Paraphilia; or guilty ruminations in the presence of Major Depressive Disorder).
E. The disturbance is not due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, a medication) or a general medical condition.











Hollywood and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder





I have included links on the left of this page that will direct you to several stories about Hollywood celebrities who have disclosed having Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. And I am also including this list of others celebrities who have had this disorder. Knowing there are others who have OCD and continue on with successful careers should be a motivation for you to carry on with a near normal life also too, if you are so diagnosed with OCD. You will find that OCD is not as commonly found as other psychological disorders. That because OCD is a much rarer disorder. Here are a list of some famous people who have either disclosed having OCD or have been described with the symptoms:




Howard Hughes,Roseanne Barr,Howie Mandel,Martin Scorsese,Howard Stern,Marc Summers,Michelangelo,Stanley Kubrick,Harrison Ford,Jane Horrocks,PenÃlope Cruz,Billy Bob Thornton,Warren Zevon,John List,Thomas 'Stonewall' Jackson,Paul Gascoigne,Nikola Tesla,John Melendez,Kathie Lee Gifford,Ludwig van Beethoven,Cameron Diaz,Albert Einstein,Ian Puleston-Davies,David Beckham,Charlie Sheen,Joey Ramone,and Leonardo DiCaprio




{Diaz has publicly admitted she is deeply germophobic and habitually rubs doorknobs so hard before opening doors to clean them that the original paint fades afterwards. Along with her floors, she says, she washes her hands 'many times' each day and uses her elbows to push open doors.}





MRI STUDIES ON OCD





Modern preliminary studies of the brain using magnetic resonance imaging have shown that people with obsessive compulsive disorder had significantly less white matter than did normal subjects, suggesting a widely distributed brain abnormality in OCD. Understanding the significance of this finding will be further explored by functional neuroimaging and neuropsychological studies (Jenike et al, 1996).






OCD AND ADDICTION





Alcohol and drugs mixed with any psychological disorder is not safe and will aggravate symptoms. OCD is an anxiety disorder and any substances that cause anxiety can only trigger and make the disorder worse. Even alcohol will help increase the anxiety and severity of OCD symptoms. Most people think that alcohol is a sedative. When the effects of alcohol begin to ware off, the drinker really suffers from irritability and anxiousness. And this will only make OCD symptoms worse.



HOW I CUT DOWN ON MY OCD SYMPTOMS AND ANXIETY

I was able to eliminate about 70- 80% of my OCD symptoms and anxiety by taking 30-50 Mg's of the SSRI  drug Luvox. Now I must admit that I have not taken any luvox for several years, so I am off my medication. But I found that by avoiding stress and also through  behavior therapy I have been able to control my symptoms and reduce my anxiety. And of course alcohol and drugs are completely out of the picture for me. Substances will bring on added stress and anxiety thus intensifying OCD symptoms.



















OCD CRITERIA AS SEEN ON THE NATIONAL INSTITUTE FOR MENTAL HEALTH WEBSITE






Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

“I couldn’t do anything without rituals. They invaded every aspect of my life. Counting really bogged me down. I would wash my hair three times as opposed to once because three was a good luck number and one wasn’t. It took me longer to read because I’d count the lines in a paragraph. When I set my alarm at night, I had to set it to a number that wouldn’t add up to a ’bad’ number.”







“I knew the rituals didn’t make sense, and I was deeply ashamed of them, but I couldn’t seem to overcome them until I had therapy.”







“Getting dressed in the morning was tough, because I had a routine, and if I didn’t follow the routine, I’d get anxious and would have to get dressed again. I always worried that if I didn’t do something, my parents were going to die. I’d have these terrible thoughts of harming my parents. That was completely irrational, but the thoughts triggered more anxiety and more senseless behavior. Because of the time I spent on rituals, I was unable to do a lot of things that were important to me.”







People with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) have persistent, upsetting thoughts (obsessions) and use rituals (compulsions) to control the anxiety these thoughts produce. Most of the time, the rituals end up controlling them.
For example, if people are obsessed with germs or dirt, they may develop a compulsion to wash their hands over and over again. If they develop an obsession with intruders, they may lock and relock their doors many times before going to bed. Being afraid of social embarrassment may prompt people with OCD to comb their hair compulsively in front of a mirror-sometimes they get “caught” in the mirror and can’t move away from it. Performing such rituals is not pleasurable. At best, it produces temporary relief from the anxiety created by obsessive thoughts.
Other common rituals are a need to repeatedly check things, touch things (especially in a particular sequence), or count things. Some common obsessions include having frequent thoughts of violence and harming loved ones, persistently thinking about performing sexual acts the person dislikes, or having thoughts that are prohibited by religious beliefs. People with OCD may also be preoccupied with order and symmetry, have difficulty throwing things out (so they accumulate), or hoard unneeded items.
Healthy people also have rituals, such as checking to see if the stove is off several times before leaving the house. The difference is that people with OCD perform their rituals even though doing so interferes with daily life and they find the repetition distressing. Although most adults with OCD recognize that what they are doing is senseless, some adults and most children may not realize that their behavior is out of the ordinary.
OCD affects about 2.2 million American adults,1 and the problem can be accompanied by eating disorders,6 other anxiety disorders, or depression.2,4 It strikes men and women in roughly equal numbers and usually appears in childhood, adolescence, or early adulthood.2 One-third of adults with OCD develop symptoms as children, and research indicates that OCD might run in families.3
The course of the disease is quite varied. Symptoms may come and go, ease over time, or get worse. But OCD will never go away. If OCD becomes severe, it can keep a person from working or carrying out normal responsibilities at home. People with OCD may try to help themselves by avoiding situations that trigger their obsessions, or they may use alcohol or drugs to calm themselves.4,5
OCD usually responds well to treatment with certain medications and/or exposure-based psychotherapy, in which people face situations that cause fear or anxiety and become less sensitive (desensitized) to them. NIMH is supporting research into new treatment approaches for people whose OCD does not respond well to the usual therapies. These approaches include combination and augmentation (add-on) treatments, as well as modern techniques such as deep brain stimulation. (NIMH)
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anorexia

ANOREXIA EXPLAINED, AND MY ANOREXIA

by john carcerano

Anorexia is the serious loss of body weight and muscle mass. This is caused by several factors and these factors are explained further on in this summary. Anorexics have a distorted view of their own body appearance and of their weight. They fear gaining weight and feel that they are getting fat even when they clearly are not. They are usually at least 15-18% below their normal body weight for their height. they have restricted their eating to patterns of 1000 calories or less. Often as little as 300-500 calories a day. Anorexics often are fatigued, have muscle aches and often experience headaches. People who suffer from anorexia need intense psychological therapy to help better understand the issues that are causing their preoccupation with weight loss and malnutrition.









Culture
In today's modern culture the extra thin woman is the sign of beauty. This wasn't always the case. In the 1800's, as is apparent from paintings and photographs back then, weight and big curves were considered a thing of beauty in a woman. A growing factor putting pressure on women to lose weight is our modern society. This triggers an obsession with a woman to fit in by having a stick thin figure. Models and movie stars on television all have body's of skin and bone, and they all get the handsome man. A size zero body for a woman is the "in thing" to have. We
need to take a good look at what we do as a society, especially in the movie and recording industry. They are the trend setters.


Genetics
A persons family history also plays a role in anorexia. If there is a history of anorexia or OCD in a persons family tree then that will make someone more susceptible to anorexia also. If anorexia is in your family tree then you need to be more careful not to trigger the disorder in your offspring. Educate them young if they are more at risk. Get counseling to those who are more susceptible and have a genetic link to anorexia.




Self Esteem
Low self- esteem is a common personality trait in those diagnosed with Anorexia. Perfectionism and social isolation often manifest themselves in anorexics. Although the social isolation often emerges after the anorexia begins. These people were often good in school and no problem to others. By focusing their attention on weight loss and their food, the person will ignore the problems that they often do not want to face. This is not true in all diagnosis of Anorexia but it is evident in a few of the diagnosed forms.








Stress, Rape, Physical or Sexual abuse
Traumatic events can often be found to be another cause that triggers anorexia.












Anorexia and OCD


It is often thought that OCD is different than anorexia. With anorexia the sufferer is constantly obsessing on staying thin, and they see the slightest looseness of their skin as a sign of fat. With OCD there is constant obsessions that need to be relieved with a compulsion. Anorexia is pure obsessions. But, up to a third of OCD sufferers experience some form of anorexia or other type of obsession with their food intake and diet. If an OCD sufferer obsesses about certain foods being harmful in some way then they will avoid them and alter their diet.

A study conducted by Yale and Brown of 94 anorexic woman found that 37% of them were officially diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder using the DSM IV criteria.

Does OCD cause anorexia? The short answer is yes, in a lot of cases it does. I am one of those cases and I will explain to you in the next paragraphs. OCD has been found to exist in about 1/3 of those diagnosed with anorexia. Those with OCD tend to obsess about nearly everything, and when that obsession is about chemicals or bad things in food, it can and often does lead to anorexia. In this case the anorexia can be treated much more successfully with SSRI"S. I found that when I took luvox for my OCD, my OCD symptoms of obsessions and compulsions eased by 70-80%. There are several triggers and causes to anorexia and each different cause must be treated differently in order to have a successful outcome against the anorexia.








MY OCD HAS LED TO MY ON AGAIN, OFF AGAIN ANOREXIA





At the age of 7 I quickly developed OCD due to high fever convulsions. At the age of 9 I become grossed out when I heard about some diseased meat that had made it's way into some stores. The thought of the diseased meat, and also eating of a dead animal caused me to become a non meat eater. I avoided meat at all costs. My dad and grandmother noticed that I would only eat potatoes because i did not like meat, or the taste of vegetables. My dad and grandma used to yell at me at the dinner table to eat something nourishing. I would not. At the age of 11 I developed a bad flu. My flu lasted 3 weeks and would not subside as I would grow weaker and weaker. I was finally rushed to the hospital because I threw up blood. My diagnosis was malnutrition. Malnutrition brought on by my OCD causing me to be obsessed with only certain foods. Even my finger nails were very brittle and breaking all the time for a few years during this period. Poor and brittle nails are a clear sign of bad nutrition and anorexia. So I am a very clear example of how OCD can often lead to anorexia. It took me over 30 years to learn how to control my bouts with anorexia. But in my case it's important to point out that I also experienced bouts with binge eating too. I had brief periods in my preteen life when I was severely overweight. So no two people are alike when it comes to anorexia. That's why there is not a sure fire solution that I could give you on how to cure anorexia. I will briefly touch on several common solutions here, and will get into more detail on Anorexia in my upcoming book on Obsessive Compulsive Disorder entitled "THE STRANGER UPSTAIRS".









HOW I LEARNED TO CONTROL AND OVERCOME MY ANOREXIA









Before I briefly explain here how I overcame my bouts with anorexia please understand that my example is not a model for everyone. Each persons case with anorexia has different causes, and addressing the causes of each individual based on their symptoms and triggers of the disorder is the only way to treat anorexia in the sufferer. The anorexic must see a trained and experienced mental health specialist in order to get well and recover from this life threatening disorder. My Anorexia is caused by my OCD. I would say that I feel I have control over my Anorexia . Sure I have periods where I may starve myself but the starvation usually does not last more than a few days and I am pretty good at eating foods that are pretty high in nutrition. Although people around me laugh when ever I comment that I need to lose weight, they always tell me that I'm crazy if I think I need to lose weight. I am always encouraged by others to eat more. Although I do have very thin wrists I truly am trying to keep my wieght at 120 and that is the weight I really like to be. My weight does stay around the 128 mark and I know that is not a bad weight. I overcame my anorexia by slowly learning what proper foods I could eat that had high nutrients and low calories. Often times during my anorexic periods I would get light headed and nearly pass out. I am 5 foot 8 inches and at my lowest weight I weighed 116 pounds. I don't consider myself a severe anorexic, but for a man, 116 pounds is not a proper weight by any means. People around me would always ask me if I was sick. It got to be quite annoying. I found that in my case, having anorexia with OCD, that SSRI drugs were very effective in eliminating 70-80% of my symptoms. The drug that worked for me was luvox.








UNDOING PAST NUTRITIONAL DAMAGE AND EVEN THE CURED ANOREXIC COULD VERY WELL HAVE HEALTH ISSUES LATER IN LIFE DUE TO THE NUTRIENTS THEY STARVED THEIR BODY FROM EARLIER IN LIFE.


For anorexic patients a complete health examination will be required along with future recording of weight. Gums or teeth must be checked, a doctor must also look for unusual heart rhythms, checking of bone density, changes with menstrual cycle and tests for anemia(low red blood cell count) and heart disease. Anorexia can also lead to smaller heart muscles.
I recall a recent study of patients admitted to hospitals for heart attacks. The study found that heavy overwieght people had a higher chance of surviving a heart attack than did skinnier people. The study never fully concluded why this was so. But my opinion for this is that overwieght people probly ate more protien and had stronger hearts compared with thinner people who ate less protien. Just a little something to think about.

by john carcerano  written in conjunction with   www.newjourneyrecovery.com  . a website for helping you end your addiction to drugs and alcohol
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looking for dual diagnosis

Sunday, December 30, 2007

properly treating dual diagnosis




the importance of recognizing dual diagnosis in treating your addiction
A dual diagnosis is found in at least 40-45% of those with a history of alcohol or drug addiction. Dual diagnosis is the presence of at least one psychological disorder besides the addiction. An addiction itself is a diagnosable disorder according to the Diagnostic Manual of Mental disorders (DSM 4). It is extremely important that when you are addressing your need to quit your alcohol or drug addiction that you be checked for a psychological disorder. If there is an over looked disorder then you will most certainly not succeed in quitting your addiction until you properly treat that disorder. When you are free from all mind altering substances then you will be able to look for any and all psychological issues. The reason being, because one will mask the other. Anxiety,depression, anger and irritability are the most common symptoms to look for. A psychiatrist will be unable to look for a 2nd disorder besides the addiction, if the addiction has not been arrested because the addiction itself will bring on many of the symptoms associated with a psychological disorder. In fact, in most cases the psychological disorder will be the main trigger for the substance addiction. Drugs and alcohol are a way to self medicate from the symptoms of a mental illness. A mental illness will also make the body more physiologically susceptible to drugs or alcohol. There often is great controversy in the medical community as to what disorder should be treated first. There are psychiatrists who will not treat a patient until they are free from all drugs and alcohol, and then there are addiction counselors who will not treat an addict until their psychological disorder is being treated. For a psychiatrist or addiction counselor to take one of these attitudes really is a form of malpractice. Both disorders need to treated at the same time. If the treating counselor is not both an addiction counselor and a psychiatrist, then the patient with the dual diagnosis needs to see an addiction counselor who will work in conjunction with the treating psychiatrist. The medications used for treating the psychological disorder often take several weeks to several months before they begin working. And often times the first prescribed medications are not found to be the right ones for the patient. There are several different medications for each diagnosis, and the right ones for a specific persons physiology can only be found through trial and error. So the addiction counselor needs to have patience while this trial and error process of finding the right medicine to stabilize their patient plays out. The problem in treating the addict with the dual diagnosis can often be the denial by the addict of accepting a diagnosis for a psychological disorder. Psychological disorders often carry a social stigma with them, and because of this no one wants to be labeled as “crazy”. And this stigma is one that really should not exist given the facts that 1 in 5 people have a diagnosable psychological disorder and more than 1 in 3 people have a diagnosable addiction. Why society is so stigmatized by having one of these is really beyond the pale when you truly look at how common disorders and addiction really are. Actually, there are so many addictions in our society, from alcohol and drugs, to gambling, sex, spending, dieting, anorexia, bulimia, cosmetic surgeries and constant prepping with makeup for our looks, etc. Our social pressures have brought on such anxieties and depression that we often turn to self medication as a form of refuge just to try to find calming and comfort. Addiction is our modern day society’s number one health problem without a doubt. The top 6 causes of death in the U.S. is 1.heart disease, 2.cancer, 3.strokes, 4.resperatory illnesses, 5.accidents, 6.diabetes. Most if not all of these are themselves caused by addiction to food, cigarettes, tensions, drugs or alcohol. So as a society we do need to look at why there is a stigma to something that most everyone themselves have to some degree or another. This is why it is important for an addict to be checked for a psychological disorder as well so that the addiction can be treated with success. Remember that all addictions are rooted in a chemical imbalance, and the chemical imbalances are brought on by psychological disorders, stress, emotional strain, traumatizing situations or even a lower inability to cope with many situations. So properly treat the reasons for the chemical imbalances and you will greatly diminish the compulsion to engage in the addiction.
this blog is written in conjunction with the upcoming book “A NEW JOURNEY” RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION by john carcerano . visit my self help website at http://www.newjourneyrecovery.com/
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TRADING ADDICTIONS

DRUG ADDICTION, by john carcerano 

TRADING ADDICTIONS, ANOTHER FORM OF HARM REDUCTION

Harm reduction really has a few meanings. In text books the main definition is  basically to accept the addiction, but to cut down on the potential problems associated with the addiction. An example of this would be to give new needles to an addict to help prevent him from getting Aids due to  dirty needles. Or see to it that an addict does not drive while high. Methadone programs for heroin addiction are another example of a form of harm reduction. What I recommend as the best form of harm reduction is to trade addictions from the main destructive addiction to a less harmful one. The main definition of harm reduction seems to me to be a way to throw in the towel and give up on the addict ever recovering. Yes enabling by keeping the addict from harm is important, but at the same time you can work on easing yourself into recovery. I strongly believe that the best way to get an addict into recovery is to ease them there by getting them to use other forms of addiction to get them to finally quit their main addiction.  When I first quit drinking I found that for a year and a half I had to take over the counter sleeping pills near the end of the evening in order to settle my mind and relax. It wasn't until a close friend of mine brought up the fact that I was now dependent on sleeping pills that I realized I had a problem with them. But I did realize that the nonprescription sleeping pills were really better for me than the bottles of hard liquor I used to consume every day just to calm my anxieties. But I also knew that the effects of the over the counter sleeping aids were not having a positive effect on me either. So to get off of the sleeping aids I began to drink a variety of decaffeinated herbal teas. I found that several of these teas had mild natural sedatives in them also. Like cava cava and Valerian root. Now these were far less as strong as the over the counter sleeping aids I was taking. They did help me to get off of the sleeping aids. But then I also found myself walking more during the day to tire me more in the evening. This combined with drinking herbal tea helped me to better sleep at night without the help of the sleeping aids. When you quit one addiction, whether you realize it or not, you most probably will begin a new addiction to help settle you in order to make up for the old addiction. It's best for you to be consciously aware that this very well will take place. This way you can help find a new way to settle yourself and ease your feelings of anxiety when they occur. Keep active, eat more low calorie foods like air popped popcorn or calorie free pickles. This is what I ate when I found myself binge eating to relieve anxiety. I will get more into foods and nutrition later in this book. You are going to have unsettling feelings when you quit your addiction so look for new ways to settle yourself without the use of drugs or alcohol. That's what trading addictions is all about. There was a guy i knew named Tom who would battle his alcoholism on and off for several years. And Tom was a man who was rail thin all the time. I could always tell when Tom was not on his usual daily drinking binge because when he wasn't drinking heavily he would constantly binge eat. He was a bundle of nerves without alcohol. The eating seemed to help calm him for a brief period. The best way I could describe a person with an alcohol or drug  addiction is to say that they have an unquiet mind. Of course the same is true for other types of addictions but in this book I will concentrate on drug and alcohol addiction. Have you ever seen what happens to a smoker who has not had a  cigarette in several hours. They are a nervous train wreck. When a smoker does quit smoking they will usually gain weight. And the excuse they almost always give for this weight gain is that food tastes better now that they no longer smoke. The real reason they gain weight is because they are binge eating due to their anxieties. But you have to agree that binge eating is a lot better than smoking harmful chemically added cigarettes. Addiction regardless of what kind is all rooted in the same causes, it is triggered by a chemical imbalance brought on by either a psychological disorder or by social anxieties. a lot of addicts have a lower coping threshold than most others. So addiction is a way for the brain to protect itself from stresses that would otherwise cause it damage from stressful anxieties. I will touch on this more a little later in this chapter.


THIS BLOG IS WRITTEN IN CONJUNCTION WITH THE UPCOMING BOOK   "a new journey"  recovery from alcohol and drug addiction  BY JOHN CARCERANO    www.newjourneyrecovery.com
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quitting addiction 6 stages of change



THE 6 STAGES OF CHANGE. TAKEN FROM "A NEW JOURNEY" RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION, by john carcerano     www.newjourneyrecovery.com

HOW TO EASILY CHART YOUR PROGRESS
                    THROUGH RECOVERY.

The following 6 stages will be your guide to charting exactly where your mind set is in your recovery process. Get to know these 6 stages and always be honest with yourself as you chart your movements through them toward your recovery. These will be the road map to chart your recovery progress. How quickly you will change depends on your motivation, family support, degree of experienced assistance involved, psychological factors such as treatment if needed, degree of your support system and whether or not you are making changes to your social environment. These 6 stages of change were outlined after extensive behavioral research by Prochaska and DiClemente back in the early 1990's and are used as the national model by therapists in helping their patients chart progress and setbacks in their recovery from alcohol and drug addiction. This chapter  will help you understand the reasons  to any setbacks you may encounter. The most important thing to know is that you must always look truthfully at yourself and keep aware of who you are associating yourself with. Also get to understand what all the stressors are in your life and become very familiar with your daily schedule. You will need to do a lot of planning and replanning to keep productively busy and away from the wrong environments such as the people and places you frequent. These are key triggers to a slip or relapse. You can and will recover. Recovery really is not that difficult to achieve once you begin the process and do the necessary steps required as you enter into your NEW JOURNEY.

Six stages of change. Chart your progress to recovery.

1. Precontemplation
2. Contemplation
3.Preperation
4.Action
5.Maintainance
6.Relapse

 

1.Pre contemplation:
This is the stage when you are into your addiction   full tilt. You continue to use, you get offended by anyone who tells you that you have a problem. You are in full denial that you even have a problem and you have no intention of quitting. Your life centers around using drugs and alcohol even at the cost of neglect to your job, your health, your family and loved ones.

 

2. Contemplation:
You're having problems functioning, you may have done things you wish you hadn't. Maybe you made a fool of yourself or wrecked the car. You feel tired of using but really don't know how to quit. You tell yourself that you are finally going to quit. You are feeling tired and guilt ridden over the strained relations you have with your family and loved ones. You may be afraid your spouse is going to leave you and your world is falling apart. You tell yourself that you need to find a way to change.

 

3. Preparation:
You realize that you must quit using and you may have gradually quit for a day or two only to go back using. You now know that you seriously need to make a decision to clean up your life and you are having a lot of moments where you know that a change must be made. You are a nervous wreck all the time, you can't stand being unstable and sick anymore. You are looking for a way to quit your alcohol and drug use.

 

4. Action:
`You now have decided that you are going to stop and you have. You are going to AA meetings and reading all of the literature you can on staying sober, including reading your big book. You are beginning to find new friends who are in recovery, you have entered counseling once a week, you are also avoiding all the hangouts and people you used with in the past. You are now leading a life clean and sober. You are happy now where your new life is taking you. Your eating well balanced meals more often and your spending more time with your family. Your sleeping better at night and you have adjusted your schedule to make better use of your time.

 

5. Maintenance:
You have been following through on your recovery now for several months and your life is coasting in a new and enjoyable direction. You are working on repairing a lot of the damage from when you used alcohol and drugs. You are a good example of what getting clean is all about. You fully realize that you don't want to see any of your old friends anymore, and you have been faithfully going to your support group meetings where you have a lot of new friends who support you in your recovery. Life is going well.

 

6. Relapse:
This is where you lost touch with why you want to stay clean. You came across some pressures that you found a tough challenge and instead of getting support from your new friends or seeing a counselor, you started going back to your old hangouts and you started seeing your old friends whom you used to party with. You feel tremendous guilt over everything and you don't care anymore. Your spouse is about to leave you and you don't care. Your using drugs and alcohol again and nothing matters anymore.

(Now this phase of relapse can also be a slip just as long as you get a grip on yourself and get guidance from others who want to help you enter recovery again.)

this blog is written in conjunction with the upcoming book "A NEW JOURNEY" RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION  by john carcerano    www.newjourneyrecovery.com

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helping an addicted loved one part 1

helping a loved one find recovery from a drug or alcohol addiction ...part 1 of 3


having a close friend or family member who is an addict can be very traumatizing. they can be hard to understand many times and also seem untrustworthy. the person they are deep inside is the one you dearly love. and that person is still there, you just gotta have patience and persistence. trust me, it will pay off. do not try to force an addict into recovery because that approach will never work. no "in your face" approaches nor try to jam religion down an addicts throat. it will never work. always be gentle, compassionate, caring, concerned and a good listener. you will need to build a trust with your loved one and hold no bias in dealing with them. they may begin to tell you things that may shock you, just love them and do not judge them. do not throw up times in the past when they have disappointed or even stolen from you. they're need to feed their addiction is the reason for the disappointing acts they have committed in the past. you want the addict to get well and move on with their life, so you must talk with them only in those terms. do not overwhelm them with future events, think and talk only in the now. they will have days filled with ups and downs, there will be hours where they need to use and don't want you around, and there will be hours where they are thinking heavily about seeking help and quitting their addiction. that's where they need to know that you will be there. their mind will swing like a pendulum so be ready. when they are down and out and talk of quitting, you must strike while the iron is hot. if you do not know anything about what to do when they reach out for help, then prepare for that moment by going out and finding someone to help you when the time is right. you can either go to an al anon meeting and ask there for someone who can talk to your loved one when they are ready, or you can go see a counselor who will advise you how to contact them when your addicted loved one reaches out for help. after you find someone to intervene when that time comes, casually let the addict know that you care, and that you have been talking to someone "nice" who would be glad to assist in a recovery plan. it's important that the person who you both go to see has experience with being sober and acts in a friendly manner.it will really help greatly if you can bring them to go see an ex addict who truly understands. they will help form a bond with the addict immediately. in order for the addict to quit using, they need to change their environments where there are no recognizable triggers that can cause them to use again. bring them into a new area of town that they are unfamiliar with . they will be uneasy and jittery when they first quit using, so you need to prepare to keep them calm in some way. if they have been a heavy user then you should be prepared to get them to inpatient detox right away. there they will be under medically supervised care. if you cannot afford detox then please contact your state human services department and they will provide state sponsored detox for free. before your addicted loved one finds recovery, you will need to begin talking with them about detox so you can prepare and set it up quickly when they decide they will accept help. in detox they are usually administered sedatives so that they can sleep and relax as their body withdraws from the chemicals that have become so necessary for them to survive. the bodies cells need to readapt to normal and this process is a shock to their system. the first 5 days or so will be the most traumatic on them. but detox in a proper setting will make this process as safe as possible.



there will be 3 parts to this condensed "how to help a loved one find recovery" blog.


my alcohol and drug addiction blogs that you find here are in conjunction with my website and book entitled "A NEW JOURNEY" RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION.


MY WEBSITE THAT I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO SHARE WITH YOU IS AT http://www.newjourneyrecovery.com/

i will always be sharing more with you ....

thanks, and god bless you. john carcerano
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rush limbaugh and addictive personalities

Saturday, December 22, 2007

rush limbaugh and addictive personality


when rush Limbaugh had to disclose his addiction to the pain medication Oxycontin, it came as a huge surprise to many. actually, a few months before he disclosed his addiction, the national enquire was running headline stories about it. so he had not much of a choice but to disclose it. when i had heard about his addiction i was not at all surprised, saddened maybe, but not surprised. i am always saddened when i see someone suffering from alcohol or drug addiction. you see rush limbaugh clearly exhibits all the traits of addiction and addictive personalities. on air he is always talking about his "formerly nicotine stained fingers". a reference to his former smoking days. and of course smoking is an addiction. rush has also spoken many, many times about his up and down battle with weight. so through his own admission and through the various photos of him it is clear that he has often suffered from food addiction. when he went into rehab a few years ago to break his addiction to the pain medication Oxycontin, several tabloid newspapers had reported that he had taken up smoking again while in rehab. so he quits the Oxycontin and takes up smoking to cope with his anxieties that are no longer being coped with through his taking of pain medication. rush Limbaugh was extremely over weight about 10 or 15 years ago. he finally slimmed down about 12 years ago. right about the time when he has admitted that his addiction to Oxycontin began. so his food addiction ends when his addiction to the calming pain medication begins. and rush remained thin for the 10 years he was addicted to the Oxycontin. so now, a couple of years after his addiction to pain medication ended, rush has again developed a problem with weight. so his food addiction is back. what you should understand about addiction, all types of addiction is this, it is all rooted in the same general causes. addiction is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. this chemical imbalance is triggered in a few ways. a psychological disorder will cause a chemical imbalance and so will extreme fear, or emotionally traumatic situations. also stress and social pressures will cause a chemical imbalance. to end your addictions you need to treat the underlying root causes of your chemical imbalance. if you don't, then you will shuffle from one addiction to another in an effort to deal with an unquiet mind brought on by your chemical imbalance. i remember how my auntie Connie used to shake when she went without her cigarettes for more than one or two hours. hence, the anxiety she suffered from a chemical imbalance. look at what usually happens to most smokers who quit smoking. they gain weight. and most of them say that they have gained weight because they now have clean taste buds and can really enjoy the taste of food. wrong! the reason they gain weight is because they have replaced one addiction with another. that's called trading addictions. they can greatly end their addiction if they would just treat the root causes of their chemical imbalance that is bringing on anxieties in their unquiet mind. when i quit my heavy drinking i had found myself addicted to over the counter sleeping pills for over a year. then when i quit taking the sleeping pills to calm down i found myself drinking herbal tea with the calming ingredients of cava cava or Valerian. both natural sedatives. i also found myself walking 3 or 4 miles a day. i did not really decide i was going for a walk, i just could not keep still and before i knew it, i found myself walking. so having an addiction does not make someone a bad person, you really have to sympathize with the anxious feelings an addict feels. and what the addict needs to do is treat their chemical imbalance and then their need to engage in addictive substances and behaviors will greatly diminish. the fact is that at least 1 in 3 suffer from an addiction, half don't know it or won't recognize it, but the facts are clear that addictive disorders are much more common than most people have imagined.


this blog is written in conjunction with the upcoming book 'A NEW JOURNEY" RECOVERY FROM ALCOHOL AND DRUG ADDICTION by john carcerano


website address: www.newjourneyrecovery.com
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